Introduction
In my practice, I often meet women who feel overwhelmed when it comes time to take the next step on their fertility journey. Whether it’s joining the waitlist for Ontario’s funded IVF program or proceeding with a Frozen Embryo Transfer (FET), hesitation is common—and deeply human.
But in the face of uncertainty, one factor quietly continues to shift: time. And with time, fertility outcomes can change — sometimes quickly.
The Funded IVF Program in Ontario: What You Should Know
Ontario’s Fertility Program offers one funded IVF cycle per eligible individual. But access isn’t instant:
- Waitlists can range from 12 to 24 months depending on the clinic.
- You must be under the age of 43 and have a valid Ontario health card.
- The program covers retrieval and transfer, but not medications, which typically cost $5,000–$7,000.
Delaying your decision to get on a waitlist might mean missing your window or finding yourself with fewer viable options when the time comes
Why Waiting Carries Risk: The Impact of Age on Fertility
Fertility is complex, but the IVF success rates per cycle averages paint a clear picture:
- Under 35: 40–50%
- 35–37: 35–40%
- 38–40: 25–30%
- 41–42: 10–15%
- Over 42: Often under 5%
Ovarian reserve — the number and quality of eggs—declines significantly with age. By 37, both egg quantity and chromosomal integrity begin to drop rapidly. Even for those who feel young and healthy, fertility may be shifting quietly in the background.
Common Emotional Barriers
Fear, grief, and the longing to conceive naturally can all contribute to delayed decisions. Many struggle with the emotional transition from “trying naturally” to accepting that assisted reproductive technology may be necessary. This pause can feel protective—but for some, it can become a barrier to progress.
Taking a Brave Step Forward
Getting on the funded IVF list doesn’t mean giving up on natural conception—it means preserving your options. It means giving yourself the best chance of success before age-related factors begin to close doors.
The Role of Acupuncture
Acupuncture can support the body and mind through each phase of the fertility journey:
- Enhancing blood flow to reproductive organs
- Supporting hormonal balance
- Reducing stress and improving sleep
- Preparing the body for IVF, FET, or natural conception
While it cannot reverse the clock, acupuncture can be a powerful ally in optimizing your current potential.
Closing Thoughts
If you’re hesitating, you’re not alone. Fear is a normal part of this process. But sometimes, taking action—even a small step—can help you feel more in control. Getting on a waitlist, booking a consultation, or simply asking more questions is a brave and wise way forward.